The Saturday the Phone Didn’t Ring

What My Pop Pop Taught Me About Living with Nothing Left Unsaid

When grief collided with entrepreneurship, I discovered that success isn’t measured by how much we accomplish. It’s measured by whether we’re building a life that honors our faith, our health, our relationships, and our purpose. This is the story of my Pop Pop, the promise of Nothing Left Unsaid, and the legacy that changed how I define success and why I believe your story is someone’s soulution.

The Saturday Tradition

For nearly three years due to pandemic losses, every Saturday began with a conversation between Pop Pop and me. Sometimes he called first. Sometimes I did. Those conversations became part of the rhythm of my life, and I never imagined how much they would one day mean to me.

Looking back, I realize Pop Pop wasn’t just checking in. He was quietly preparing me for life. I didn’t know it then, but those ordinary Saturday conversations would become the foundation for one of the greatest lessons I’ve ever learned.

Who Was My Pop Pop?

Pop Pop had a way of making people feel seen. He listened without rushing, encouraged without judging, and always left me believing life wasn’t quite as complicated as it seemed. That’s why I called him my voice of reason.

I had the blessing of sharing sixty-three years with him, and I never questioned whether I was loved. He showed up for the moments that mattered, and his quiet consistency taught me more than any speech ever could.

We Assume There Will Always Be Another Saturday

In May of 2025, doctors told our family Pop Pop had about three weeks to live. During one of our final Saturday conversations, we acknowledged that one day the phone wouldn’t ring. It wasn’t an easy conversation, but it was an honest one.

After we hung up, I made a promise to myself. If I love someone, I’ll tell them. If someone has made a difference in my life, they’ll know it. That promise became my philosophy: Nothing Left Unsaid.

When Business Doesn’t Grieve

June brought one loss after another. Friends and family members passed away, and by July, I said goodbye to Pop Pop. Through it all, life kept asking me to show up, even when my heart wasn’t ready. My clients still needed edits, meetings, links, answers, and deadlines met. Grief didn’t stop my calendar, and my calendar didn’t make room for grief.

The first Saturday after Pop Pop passed away, the phone didn’t ring. That’s when I realized I had been taking care of everyone else’s needs while quietly ignoring my own heart. I wasn’t just tired. I was grieving, and I had never given myself permission to acknowledge it.

The Success I Thought I Wanted

Saying goodbye to Pop Pop changed how I define success. I used to measure it by completed projects, published books, and crossed-off to-do lists. Those things still matter, but they no longer tell the whole story.

Today, I believe success is measured by something much deeper. Am I protecting my health? Am I making time for the people I love? Am I building a business that supports my life instead of consuming it? Those questions matter just as much as any business goal.

The Freedom I Want for Every Woman

Several years ago, I made a decision to live more intentionally. I became debt-free except for my mortgage, stopped making emotional money decisions, and built a business that allows me to take every other month away from client work. I don’t work weekends because I’ve learned that rest isn’t something we earn after everything is finished. It’s part of a healthy life.

That’s the freedom I want for every woman. I want her to build a profitable business without sacrificing her health, her family, her faith, or her peace. Success should create freedom, not captivity.

Why Stories Matter

I’ve loved stories since I was a little girl because stories help us feel less alone. They remind us that someone else has walked a similar road and found hope on the other side.

That’s why Talk To Me Publishing and my Beyond The Book™ process is so important to me. We don’t simply help people publish books. We help purpose-driven leaders transform their stories into books, and their books into businesses that create impact, income, and lasting legacy. I’ve learned that when someone has the courage to share their story, it often becomes someone else’s Soulution. More importantly, your legacy begins the moment you share your story

Before We Leave This Conversation

As I think about Pop Pop, I realize the greatest gift he left me wasn’t advice. It was the way he lived. He showed me that relationships deserve our time, encouragement should never be delayed, and love should always be spoken while people can still hear it.

If someone came to mind while you were reading this, don’t wait. Make the call. Send the text. Write the note. Tomorrow is a gift, not a guarantee.

Until Next Time

Every Saturday reminds me that life is precious and relationships are worth protecting. Pop Pop may no longer be on the other end of the phone, but his voice still guides the way I choose to live. That’s why I choose to live with Nothing Left Unsaid.

My hope is that you’ll do the same.

The Soulutionist Reflection

Every story teaches us something. My hope is that today’s reflection encourages you to live intentionally, choose wisely, and leave Nothing Left Unsaid.

With gratitude,

Brenda The Soulutionist

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