5 Strategies To Put Your Family First

5 Strategies To Put Your Family First

5 Strategies To Put Your Family First

 A recent trip to see my Kiddo Alex at their college got me thinking about how I spent my time. As an entrepreneur, the responsibilities of managing your business can seem never-ending. Phone calls, meetings, paperwork, webinars, networking, and business travel can occupy much of your time. However, keeping your work from consuming all your time and energy is important. One way to ensure you maintain a healthy work-life harmony is by making family time a priority. In this article, we will discuss some strategies for scheduling family time, asking your loved ones what they want and need, and why prioritizing quality time with family is essential for both personal fulfillment and business success that might serve you.

Here are five strategies you may want to consider: 

  1. Schedule Family Time: Just as you schedule meetings and appointments for your business, it is vital to schedule dedicated time for your family. Putting family first will require you to set boundaries and make decisions that will create harmony. Whether it is, setting precise working hours, digital free time, a weekly dinner together, a movie night, or a weekend outing, setting aside specific times for family activities ensures that you prioritize spending time with loved ones. By putting these events on your calendar, you are more likely to follow through and create lasting memories with your family.
  2. Ask Them What They Want and Need: Communication is critical when it comes to making family time a priority. I overlooked this step and was shocked when I discovered my college-aged child needed my undivided attention and cuddle time. Take the time to ask your family members what they enjoy doing together and what they need from you in terms of support and attention. By actively listening to their wants and needs, you can tailor your family activities to ensure everyone feels valued and included. This open dialogue also fosters stronger relationships and helps create a sense of unity within the family unit.
  3. Disconnect from Work: It can be tempting to check emails or take work calls during family time, but setting boundaries between work and home life is necessary. Make an effort to disconnect from work distractions during designated family time so that you can fully engage with your loved ones without any interruptions. This separation allows you to recharge mentally and emotionally while strengthening bonds with your family members. Putting away my iPad and iPhone during my visit with Alex earned me major cool points.
  4. Create Meaningful Traditions: Establishing meaningful traditions with your family can help strengthen relationships and create lasting memories that family members will cherish for years. Whether baking cookies together during the holidays, going on an annual camping trip, digital free time, or creating fun at home like date nights with your kids or significant other, these rituals provide opportunities for quality bonding time and allow everyone to look forward to special moments shared as a family.
  5. Prioritize Self-Care: To show up fully present for your family, you must also prioritize self-care. Make sure you take care of yourself physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally so that you have the energy and capacity to give back to those around you. I encourage you to commit to your well-being by getting enough sleep, exercising regularly, or practicing mindfulness techniques; investing in self-care ultimately benefits you and your loved ones.


Making family time a priority is crucial for entrepreneurs striving for success in their personal lives and businesses. By scheduling dedicated time for your loved ones, communicating openly about wants and needs, disconnecting from work distractions, creating meaningful traditions, and prioritizing self-care, you can cultivate strong relationships with your family members while achieving greater fulfillment in all aspects of life. Remember, harmony within your work and home life is essential for overall well-being. More importantly, it is your choice to make sure not to let precious moments with loved ones slip away amidst the business of entrepreneurship. Ready to create harmony in your business and personal life? Join the Soulutionist Portal and get help doing business your way as you make family a priority.

The Business of Doing Business

The Business of Doing Business

As an entrepreneur running your own business, the ability to control paperwork is paramount for the smooth functioning of your operations, financial health, mental well-being, and overall success. The impact of paperwork extends far beyond mere record-keeping; it serves as a foundation for compliance, decision-making, and scalability. When you do not have employees, you may, like I have, delay your paperwork management. My failure to control the business flow of doing business had me leaving money on the table and missing lucrative business opportunities. This article will explore the significance of controlling paperwork, viable solutions, real-life examples, and practical tips to empower entrepreneurs to manage this crucial aspect of their business so they will have no wasted opportunity.

Why Is Paperwork Essential?

Impact on Operations and Finances

Efficient paperwork (digital and hard copy) management is crucial for maintaining the day-to-day operations of a business. From invoicing and billing to employee records and legal documentation, paperwork underpins every aspect of a company’s activities. Poorly controlled paperwork can lead to administrative chaos, resulting in missed deadlines, compliance issues, and operational inefficiencies. Moreover, from a financial perspective, accurate and organized records are essential for tax compliance, financial reporting, and strategic decision-making. With proper paperwork control, businesses can avoid facing financial penalties, operational disruptions, and potential damage to their reputation.

Solutions for Keeping Your Paperwork in Control

Necessary Documentation to Maintain

The first step in gaining control over paperwork is to identify the necessary documentation to be maintained. Records requiring retention may include but are not limited to:

  • Financial records such as income statements, balance sheets, and tax filings
  • Legal documents, including contracts, permits, licenses, and intellectual property filings
  • Employee records encompassing payroll information, HR documentation, and compliance records
  • Business correspondence, invoices, receipts, and expense reports

Deadlines to Meet

Meeting deadlines is critical for ensuring compliance with regulatory requirements, tax filings, and contractual obligations. Establishing a robust system to track deadlines and submission dates is indispensable. Whether it’s filing taxes, renewing licenses, or submitting financial reports, missing deadlines can have serious consequences. The new LLC filing requirements could cost you up to $500 daily if you fail to meet the filing deadlines.

Tips for Organized Records

Maintaining organized records is pivotal for efficient paperwork management. Implementing a systematic filing structure, digitizing important documents, and utilizing clear labeling can significantly streamline document retrieval and reduce the risk of misplacement. Investing in cloud storage solutions and backup systems can safeguard against data loss and provide accessibility from anywhere.

Tools, Apps, and Software

Several tools, apps, and software solutions are available to assist entrepreneurs in managing their paperwork effectively:

  • QuickBooks: An accounting software simplifies financial record-keeping and offers invoicing, expense tracking, and tax filing features.
  • Dropbox or Google Drive: Cloud storage solutions that enable secure document storage, collaboration, and accessibility across devices.
  • Expensify: A tool for automating expense report management, streamlining receipt capture, and facilitating approval workflows.
  • HelloSign or DocuSign: E-signature platforms that expedite the signing process for contracts and legal documents.

Like many others, these tools can streamline paperwork processes, improve accuracy, and enhance collaboration among team members. Always research before investing in any app or software by utilizing the free trial version and asking others about their experience with the product. Doing research has saved me time, money, and headaches.

Real-Life Examples and Lessons Learned

Businesses That Have Struggled Due to Poor Paperwork Control

Example 1: A client with ahome-based T-shirt Printing Company experienced significant setbacks due to poor paperwork control. Inaccurate inventory records led to frequent stockouts, affecting production schedules and customer orders. Additionally, delayed invoicing and inconsistent purchase records resulted in cash flow challenges and strained customer and supplier relationships.

Example 2: Aclient with a service-based business faced compliance issues and legal disputes due to incomplete client contract documentation. Failure to maintain comprehensive project records and communication logs led to misunderstandings and client dissatisfaction, impacting the company’s reputation and future business opportunities.

Reasons Behind Their Problems

In both cases, a proactive approach to paperwork control could have helped operational efficiency, financial stability, and customer satisfaction. The root causes of these challenges were primarily attributed to manual record-keeping processes, lack of standardized documentation protocols, and inadequate utilization of digital tools for paperwork management, which I helped them both put in place. Like the two examples, I have had to address my own business of doing business concerns and make changes.

Lessons Learned

These real-life examples underscore the importance of implementing efficient paperwork control measures. Creating a consistent system for managing documentation is one way to work smarter, not harder. By leveraging digital tools for document management, instituting standardized processes for record-keeping, and prioritizing compliance, businesses can avoid the pitfalls that befell my clients and me. It is not fun, but it is essential to your success.

Additional Advice and Recommendations

To diminish stress and enhance productivity through effective paperwork control, consider the following recommendations:

  • Regularly review and update documentation protocols to align with changing regulatory requirements.
  • Foster a culture of record-keeping discipline within your business or organization, emphasizing the value of accurate and timely paperwork management.
  • Seek professional guidance from accountants, legal advisors, and business consultants to ensure comprehensive compliance and strategic financial planning.
  • Invest in self and employee training to enhance digital literacy and proficiency by utilizing paperwork management tools and software.

It is my prayer these tips will have you take a hard look at the way you do the business of doing business. Entrepreneurs need to pay attention to the significance of controlling paperwork. By understanding the impact of paperwork on operations and finances and implementing organized record-keeping systems, you can reduce stress, safeguard your mental well-being, and improve customer and supplier relations while running your business successfully. Need help with the business of doing business? Join the Soultionist Portal, gain confidence, and make connections while learning how to create passive income. Be Blessed

Why Video First-Time Connections Are Better Than Phone Calls

Why Video First-Time Connections Are Better Than Phone Calls

Today, a connection call with someone I was looking forward to meeting was canceled because I would not make the first contact by phone. As an entrepreneur, connecting with others is critical to growing your business and achieving success. However, with the rise of technology and the prevalence of bots and misrepresentations, it can be challenging to make meaningful connections. That is why I prefer video first-time connections over phone calls. It has been almost three years since I received the phone call that changed my life (That is a story for another time). However, I will explain why video is my preferred method and how it has allowed me to make more meaningful connections that serve both myself and the other person.

I Like Personal Connections

Video calls provide a level of personal connection that phone calls cannot match. I like knowing I am dealing with a natural person. Seeing someone’s facial expressions and body language can help me better gauge their emotions and intentions. It helps create a more personal connection between two people who may have never met. When connecting through video for the first time, I am more likely to be talking to an actual human instead of a bot or automated response system.

I Want To Establish Trust

Visual connections allow most of us to establish trust more quickly than just hearing someone’s voice over the phone. Trust is essential in any business relationship or partnership, especially when working remotely or with people worldwide. Seeing someone face-to-face creates a stronger bond compared to just hearing their voice on the phone.

Non-verbal Cues Are Helpful

Video calls give you access to non-verbal cues that we would otherwise miss during a phone call or email exchange. For instance, if someone looks uncomfortable with what you are saying or seems disinterested in your proposal, it will be easier for you to detect that through visual communication rather than on a regular call.

Improve Comfort

Video calls can aid in building better relationships by allowing you to put a face to the name of your contact list. As such, it makes future interactions more comfortable since you already know what they look like and how they present themselves.


In conclusion, while phone calls have traditionally been used to make connections, video calls are the future with all the automation to help instill a sense of trust. They provide a level of personal connection, establish trust more quickly, and allow you to access non-verbal cues that would otherwise be missed during a phone conversation between callers. Video first-time connections make it easier to build relationships with people, which is critical for entrepreneurs and businesses. What are your thoughts on this subject? Do you prefer video over phone calls for your first-time connections? I would love to hear your thoughts, for or against. Let’s discuss this in the comments below. Be Blessed.

Distraction Detox: How Entrepreneurs Can Thrive Mind, Body, and Soul

Distraction Detox: How Entrepreneurs Can Thrive Mind, Body, and Soul

Entrepreneurs wear many hats. CEOs, creators, marketers, strategists, the list goes on! But amidst the daily hustle, a silent thief steals our most precious resource: focus. Distractions lurk everywhere, from buzzing notifications to endless social media scrolls, threatening our well-being and, ultimately, our business success. For me, it is guinea pig videos. Seeing those little souls brings me joy and sometimes becomes a lovely distraction lasting for hours.

But it does not have to be this way. Forget the “hustle hard, die young” narrative. True success lies in life harmony, where business thrives alongside your mind, body, and soul. Today, we will embark on a distraction detox journey, unlocking tips and tools to reclaim your focus and live your best life:


  • Tame the Tech Tiger: Identify your biggest digital distractions (think endless emails and social media rabbit holes), and silence them ruthlessly. Utilize tools like website blockers, notification management apps, and designated “unplugged” hours.
  • Embrace Mindfulness: Meditation is not just for hippies! Start with five (5) minutes of mindful breathing daily to cultivate focus and inner peace. Apps like Headspace and Calm offer guided meditations for beginners.
  • Schedule Your Success: Chunk your workday into focused slots dedicated to specific tasks. I utilize the Pomodoro Technique twenty-five (25) minutes of work followed by a five (5) minute break, to boost productivity and combat burnout.


  • Move Your Body, Move Your Business: Schedule regular exercise, even if it’s just a twenty-minute (20) minute walk. I walk inside my home in between meetings to get my steps in. Physical activity reduces stress, improves cognitive function, and boosts energy, leading to better decision-making and increased productivity.
  • Fuel Your Fire, Not Your Fatigue: Ditch the sugary snacks and processed foods. Nourish your body with whole, nutritious meals that provide sustained energy and mental clarity. Remember, you are what you eat! Check out Jeniece Pagie aka Coach J at Black Vegan Health and Wellness for healthy food choices.
  • Sleep is Your Superpower: Prioritize 7-8 hours of quality sleep each night. Invest in a comfortable sleep environment and develop a relaxing bedtime routine. Well-rested entrepreneurs make better decisions and achieve more.


  • Connect with Your Why: Remember the passion that ignited your entrepreneurial journey? Reconnect with your core values and purpose. Remind yourself why you started and what truly matters to you. Keeping my “why” front and center has helped me stay focused during rough times.
  • Practice Gratitude: Take time each day to appreciate the good things in your life, both personal and professional. Gratitude fosters positivity and resilience, essential qualities for any entrepreneur. I am grateful you are reading this article.
  • Disconnect to Reconnect: Schedule regular digital detox breaks, even if it is just an hour a day. Step away from screens, immerse yourself in nature, and reconnect with the world around you.

Remember, distraction is not inevitable; it is manageable. By incorporating these tips into your daily routine, you can achieve laser focus, cultivate inner peace, and build a business that fuels your well-being without depleting it. Let’s rewrite the narrative: entrepreneurs who thrive mind, body, and soul are the true game-changers. Now go forth, detox, and create a life and business that reflects your best self!

Bonus Resources:

  • Books: “The Big Leap” by Gay Hendricks, “The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhigg
  • Apps: Freedom (website block), Headspace (meditation), RescueTime (productivity tracker)
  • Websites: Freemmindfulness.org(mindfulness), Mindful.org (stress management)

Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Share your own distraction-busting tips and experiences in the comments below! Join The Soulutionist Portal group coaching to gain confidence and knowledge, collaborate, connect, and learn how to make passive income. Together, let’s build a community of empowered entrepreneurs who thrive in every aspect of their lives.

8 Strategies That Help You Get Through Hopeless Situations

8 Strategies That Help You Get Through Hopeless Situations

Yesterday, I was informed of the loss of another beautiful soul. This writing is my attempt to reach out in case someone else believes they are in a hopeless situation. As entrepreneurs, we all have days where we feel hopeless and discouraged. It could be a failed business venture, a lost client, the end of a relationship, or a rough patch in life that has left us feeling down and out. Some situations must run their course; at other times, plans must be made. Hopeless events do not exclude the possibility of better days ahead. The good news is that there are ways to navigate through these situations and come out on the other side stronger than ever before. In this article, I will share eight (8) strategies that have helped me through tough times, and I hope they will do the same for you.

Try these strategies when it appears all is lost:

1. Let it go. If the outcome is inevitable, does obsessing over it ever help? Letting go may seem like surrendering, but why persist with something unwinnable? Choose to release it and embrace the next chapter of your life. Letting go of beliefs, people places and things that no longer served me was one of the greatest gifts I gave myself.

2. Purge your emotions. Let your feelings out. There are healthy ways to uplift yourself. Some find solace in exercise, while others feel relief after a good cry. Spending time with loved ones or having dinner with friends may boost your spirits. I purge my emotions in a journal because a blank page holds no judgment. Sometimes I cried as I Journaled. The key is to seek a positive outlet. Reckless drinking, substance abuse, and impulsive spending are unhealthy choices. Choose wisely.

3. Try to learn something. In most cases, dire situations stem from past decisions. Reflect on your role in the current circumstances. Did you overlook warning signs in a relationship? Did you take on a mortgage beyond your means? Give yourself some grace and learn from your situation. I choose to look for the gift in every situation. It allows me to see any circumstances I encounter from a different perspective. It is common to repeat our mistakes. What can you learn to avoid a repeat performance in the future? Imagine how great your life would be if you only made each mistake once. Imagine what you would learn if you saw the gift in each situation.

4. Enjoy yourself. Now might be the perfect time to visit your favorite restaurant, take a walk in the park, or see a movie with a friend. Despite life’s challenges, you can still have a good time. Laugh and move forward. I look for joy in the small things. It gives me peace. I practice positive affirmations to increase my joy. My daily mantra is I bring joy, I am the peace. Try it or create your own. Because what you tell yourself matters.

5. Keep up with your responsibilities. Your children, family, and friends still need your love and attention. The bills still have to be paid. Avoid neglecting other areas of your life. When I found myself overwhelmed, I asked for help. I have discovered asking for assistance is not a weakness. It is a sign of strength. Sometimes, it was having responsibilities that kept me safe. Having a sense of purpose is essential, especially when you are in a perceived hopeless situation.

6. Create a plan for the future. Anticipating an interesting and exciting future can propel you forward. A bleak future makes it hard to be happy. Embrace the possibilities and craft an inspiring future for yourself. Then, take one small step towards making it a reality. Take time to write out your perfect day in great detail. Journaling is a great way to gather your thoughts and to write the story you want to live. I update my perfect day as needed to ensure I stay clear on what I desire for my life. Then I align my actions to ensure it comes to pass.

7.  Make a list of all the things that fill you with gratitude. It is likely there are many people in the world with far more challenging circumstances. It can be easy to forget this fact. Reflect on what you have going for you and add to the list regularly. Refer to the list whenever you need a reminder that your life is worth living. Each morning when I rise, I think of ten things I can be grateful for to start my day positively. I have chosen to live with an attitude of gratitude, and it has made a world of difference in how I see my life.

8.  Remember other situations in your life that seemed hopeless. Like me, you survived and ultimately came out more resilient and knowledgeable on the other side. Take time to recall past hopeless situations. If you are reading this, it means you survived. I pray you emerge stronger and wiser. As a woman of faith, I often rehearse God’s resume to remind myself that I am never alone, and this, too, shall pass.


Hopeless situations are inevitable in life, but they don’t have to define us. Letting go and moving forward can be the best choice. Worrying has never altered the outcome of any situation. By implementing these eight (8) strategies, we can gracefully navigate challenging times and become stronger on the other side. Remember to take care of yourself, seek support from those around you, seek professional help when needed, and stay positive in the face of adversity. No opportunity is ever truly wasted when we learn from our experiences and use them as stepping stones towards success. If you or someone you know are thinking of harming themselves, please call the National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 Veterans Press 1. That line is available twenty-four hours a day. Be blessed and stay safe and remember that help is available. You are not alone.