Hello, Trailblazers! Have you ever heard the saying, “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree?” Well, when it comes to my entrepreneurial spirit and business savvy, you can definitely blame it on my Momma!
As a child, I often found my mother’s insistence on excellence to be a source of frustration. Even the simple act of making my bed had to be done perfectly. However, as I reflect on these moments, I realize that my mother laid a rock-solid foundation for my future success in business.
You see, our kitchen and dining room tables weren’t just for meals; for my brothers and I, they were a classroom for life. My Momma, with her infinite wisdom and no-nonsense approach, instilled in us kids valuable lessons that have shaped who we are and how we approach life and business.
So, grab a seat at my virtual kitchen table as I share the top five life lessons that turned into my business blueprint:
1. Show Up to Make an Impact:
Momma’s Lesson: “Don’t just sit there talking about it. Go out and do it!”
Business Application: You can have the greatest idea in the world, but if you don’t put yourself out there, no one will know. My Momma was a master at connecting with others. When I started my business, I employed her practices by actively participating in networking events and online communities, which helped me build my brand and create opportunities for myself.
Action Step: Identify one networking event or online community to join this week.
2. Honesty is the Best Policy:
Momma’s Lesson: “If you lie, you will steal. And both are wrong.”
Business Application: Trust is the foundation of any successful business. Be transparent, keep your promises, and always act with integrity. Momma was resolute: Your reputation is your most valuable asset.
Action Step: Review your business practices and identify areas where you can improve transparency and communication.
3. Respectful Disagreement:
Momma’s Lesson: “Everyone’s entitled to their opinion, but that doesn’t mean you have to be rude about it.”
Business Application: Embrace diverse perspectives and be open to feedback, even if you disagree. Handle disagreements with professionalism and grace. I highly value Momma’s advice to agree to disagree without being disagreeable.
Action Step: Practice active listening and seek to understand differing viewpoints before responding.
4. Actions Speak Louder Than Words:
Momma’s Lesson: “Don’t just tell me you’re going to do something. Show me.”
Business Application: Your actions define your brand. Be consistent and reliable, and always strive to exceed expectations. Momma’s words, “No one is looking for a slacker,” remind me to pursue excellence and consistency.
Action Step: Identify one area where you can improve your follow-through and commit to taking action.
5. Authenticity is Key:
Momma’s Lesson: “Be yourself. You are a designer original.”
Business Application: Don’t try to fit into a mold or copy someone else’s success. Embrace your unique personality and let it shine through in your brand. Momma’s “There will never be another you, baby; show them your power. It is God-given” still makes me smile.
Action Step: Brainstorm ways to infuse more of your personality into your marketing and branding efforts.
Bonus Tip:
Momma’s Lesson: “Two heads are better than one.”
Business Application: Don’t be afraid to ask for help or seek out mentors. Surround yourself with people who believe in you and can offer guidance and support. Momma taught me I did not have to be the most intelligent person in the room. Also, in this Lesson, I learned the power of collaboration, teamwork, and service.
Action Step: Join a community dedicated to your success.
These lessons, straight from my Momma’s kitchen table to your entrepreneurial journey, have been my guiding light. I’m confident they can do the same for you. If you’re hungry for more of my Momma’s wisdom, join the Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching and let her spirit of excellence elevate your business practices.
Remember, success isn’t just about what you know; it’s about how you show up, treat others, and stay true to yourself. These lessons, straight from my Momma’s kitchen table to your entrepreneurial journey, have been my guiding light. I’m confident they can do the same for you. Let’s make your entrepreneurial journey a success together!
Now go out there, apply these lessons, and make your Momma proud!
One Last Thought
If you’re fortunate enough to still have your mother with you, take a moment to hug her for me (I miss mine). And when you get a chance, I’d love to hear what lessons you’ve learned from your mother that have contributed to your success. Share your stories in the comments below.
Hey there, Trailblazers! As we fire up the grills and soak up the last rays of summer sun, let’s not forget the true spirit of Labor Day. It’s a time to honor the hard work and dedication of those who built our nation AND a golden opportunity for us entrepreneurs to recharge, reflect, and strategize for even greater success!
Before we dive into the action steps, let’s take a quick trip back in time. Labor Day wasn’t always about backyard parties and mattress sales. It was born from the sweat and sacrifice of workers fighting for fair treatment and a better life.
As entrepreneurs, we’re part of that legacy. We’re the risk-takers, the innovators, the ones who hustle daily to build something meaningful. Labor Day reminds us to honor that spirit in ourselves and those we work with.
Action Steps to Make the Most of Labor Day:
Here are some actionable steps you can take to make the most of this Labor Day. These steps are designed to help you recharge, reflect, and strategize for even greater success.
Disconnect to Reconnect: Put down the phone, step away from the laptop, and permit yourself to unplug. Spend time with loved ones, immerse yourself in nature, or do something joyous. Remember, a refreshed mind is a creative mind!
Reflect and Realign: Use this break to take stock of your entrepreneurial journey. What’s working? What’s not? Are you still aligned with your core values and long-term goals? Labor Day is the perfect time to course-correct and ensure you’re on the right track.
Plan Your Next Big Move: While relaxation is key, don’t let Labor Day slip by without some strategic thinking. Brainstorm new ideas, revisit your business plan, or map out your marketing strategy for the fall. A little planning now can pay off big time later.
Show Appreciation: Take a moment to express gratitude to your team, clients, and partners. A simple thank-you note, a small gift, or even a heartfelt email can go a long way in building strong relationships and fostering loyalty.
Give Back: In the spirit of Labor Day, consider volunteering your time or donating to a cause you believe in. Giving back benefits others fills your cup, and reminds you of the bigger picture.
Remember:
Rest is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Don’t feel guilty about taking time off. Remember, during these moments of rest, your mind rejuvenates, and you come back stronger and more focused than ever.
Embrace the spirit of Labor Day. It’s a celebration of hard work, a recognition of your dedication, and a reminder to find balance and enjoy the fruits of your labor. You’re not alone. Reach out to fellow entrepreneurs for support and inspiration. We’re all in this together!
So, fire up that grill, raise a glass to the hardworking folks who came before us, and let’s make this Labor Day a springboard for even greater success!
Happy Labor Day, Trailblazers! Now, go out there and make some magic happen!
Hey there, Trailblazers! Let’s talk about something I wish I had understood when I started this season of my entrepreneurial journey: the power of your story. As entrepreneurs, we’re not just building businesses; we’re living, breathing, rule-bending stories in the making. And trust me, sharing those stories isn’t just good for the soul; it’s essential for success.
Soul-Searching for Success
Now, I know what you might be thinking: “Brenda, my story’s messy, full of twists and turns, and doesn’t fit the ‘perfect entrepreneur’ mold.” And you know what? That’s exactly why it matters!
The journey to entrepreneurship isn’t a straight line. It’s full of doubts, failures, and ‘aha!’ moments. Sharing those raw, real experiences connects you with your audience on a deep, personal level. It shows them the person behind the brand, the heart behind the hustle.
Why Rule-Breakers Need to Speak Up
For those of you who color outside the lines, sharing your story is even more critical. Society often tells us to fit in, follow the rules, and play it safe. But you, my friend, were born to stand out!
Your story is a beacon for others who feel trapped in the conventional. It’s not just about you; it’s about the impact you can have on others. It shows them it’s okay to question the norm, break the mold, and create their own path. It’s a testament to the power of resilience, creativity, and unwavering belief in oneself.
Sharing Your Story: Where to Start
I know putting your story out there can be scary. But remember, vulnerability is strength. Here are a few tips to get you started:
Start Small: Share snippets on social media, in blog posts, or during networking events.
Be Authentic: Don’t try to sugarcoat your journey. Embrace the messiness.
Focus on Your ‘Why’: What drives you? What impact do you want to make?
Show Your Evolution: Highlight how your experiences shaped your expertise.
Use Your Voice: Write in a way that feels natural and reflects your personality.
Trailblazers Who’ve Shared Their Soul
I’ve seen firsthand how powerful storytelling can be. Take Madam C.J. Walker. Her story of overcoming poverty and discrimination to become the first self-made female millionaire inspires countless women and entrepreneurs of color. Or look at Daymond John of FUBU. His story of starting a clothing line from his living room inspires countless aspiring entrepreneurs. There’s also Sara Blakely(I speak of her often because she is a personal inspiration), the founder of Spanx, who shared her story of how she started her business with just $ 5,000 and a dream. These are just a few examples of how sharing your story can inspire others and make a real impact.
Your Story, Your Expertise
Remember, sharing your story isn’t just about connecting with your audience. It’s about establishing yourself as an expert. Your experiences, lessons learned, and unique perspectives are your credibility. Own it!
So, what are you waiting for? The world needs your story. It’s time to share your soul and inspire others to break free and chase their dreams. Need help sharing your story? Join the Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching to get started writing your story today. Now speak up, share, show, and tell them what you’re made of! I am Brenda, the Soulutionist, and I believe in you. Be Blessed.
Hey there, Trailblazers! If you’re ready to ditch the ‘fitting in’ mindset and become the designer original you were born to be, get prepared because we are about to dive deep into the art of walking away.
The ‘Walk Away’ Mentality: Your Key to Unlocking True Success
As entrepreneurs, we’re not just rule-breakers; we’re rule-re-writers. But that means we can’t be afraid to walk away from anything holding us back. Whether it’s a toxic client, a life-draining personal relationship, a limiting belief, or even a seemingly ‘safe’ opportunity, it’s gotta go if it doesn’t serve your highest good!
The Soulutionist’s Steps to Walking Away with Confidence:
Recognize the ‘Misfit’: Pay attention to those gut feelings. If something feels ‘off,’ it probably is. Don’t ignore those signals.
Assess the Impact: Ask yourself, ‘Is this helping me become my best self or build a profitable business?’ If the answer is no, it’s time to make a change.
Make the Decision: This is where the rubber meets the road. It’s time to say ‘no’ or ‘goodbye’ to whatever’s not serving you.
Embrace the ‘Walk Away’ Power: Every time you walk away from something that’s not right, you create space for something extraordinary to enter your life.
Celebrate Your Uniqueness: You are a designer original. Own it! Don’t be afraid to stand out from the crowd.
Remember:
Walking away is not quitting. It’s choosing yourself and your vision.
You are not alone. Many successful entrepreneurs have walked away from seemingly ‘good’ opportunities to pursue their dreams.
The world needs your unique gifts. Don’t dim your light to fit in.
Brenda’s Bottom Line:
Walking away is not easy, but it’s essential for growth. As entrepreneurs, we must be willing to let go of the good to make room for the great. So, be bold, be brave, and walk away from anything that’s not helping you become the best version of yourself.
I am Brenda, the Soulutionist, and I believe in you. The world is waiting for your brilliance! If you need help with Shining Bright, join the Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching to get your needed support. Be Blessed.
Hey there, Trailblazers! Brenda, the Solutionist here, is ready to spark that fire within you, the one that whispers, “Rules? Pfft, who needs them?” Let’s shatter those confining expectations, embrace the thrill of the unknown, and unleash the unstoppable entrepreneur within.
Rules? Made to be… Well, You Know…
Look, I get it. Rules, structure, the tried-and-true path, they’re comforting, familiar, and often stifling. But what if we shift our perspective? What if we see the unknown not as a void but as a thrilling adventure waiting to be explored? Entrepreneurship isn’t about fitting into a mold but breaking it and creating something uniquely yours. Remember, every groundbreaking idea started with someone who dared to say, “Nah, I’m gonna do it my way.” Let’s embrace this thrilling adventure of the unknown and unleash the entrepreneur within.
Take it from me. When I set out to share my message of empowerment and living in the NOW, the traditional publishing route wasn’t vibing with my energy. I broke the rules, embraced the digital age, and connected directly with my audience. Was it scary? You bet! Was it worth it? Absolutely. My message resonated, my books soared, and I forged an unbreakable bond with my readers.
Persistence vs. Pivoting: Trust Your Gut
Now, let’s talk about persistence. It’s a virtue, no doubt, but it’s not about banging your head against a brick wall. Sometimes, the most persistent thing you can do is listen to your gut and change direction. Don’t confuse stubbornness with strength. If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to pivot ( I have dozens of times), adapt, and find a new path that aligns with your vision. Remember, it’s okay to pivot. It’s a clear sign of strength and adaptability.
Rule-Breaking Tips: Fundamentals First
All right, let’s get practical. Breaking the rules doesn’t mean throwing out the baby with the bathwater. It’s about mastering business fundamentals first, then bending them to your will. Here are a few tips to get you started:
Know Your Why: What’s your driving force? Your passion? Your purpose? This will be the glue that keeps you sticking to your purpose when the going gets tough.
Embrace the Unexpected: Be open to new ideas, opportunities, and collaborations. Sometimes, the best things happen when you least expect them. Stay open and curious and ready to pounce on those unexpected opportunities.
Build a Tribe: Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who support your vision and challenge you to grow.
Fail Forward: Mistakes are inevitable. Learn from them, dust yourself off, and keep moving forward.
Live in the NOW: Don’t get caught up in regrets or worries about the future. Focus on the present moment and make the most of every opportunity.
Trust Your Gut, Own Your Success
Above all, trust your gut. It’s your most powerful tool. If something feels off, don’t ignore it. If an opportunity excites you, go for it. You are the architect of your success. Break the rules, forge your own path, and create a business that reflects your unique brilliance. Need help breaking the rules to grow your business? Join The Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching and close the gaps between your desires and reality. Trust your gut, own your success, and never forget you control your journey.
Listen up, my fellow rule-breakers. The world is waiting for your magic. Now go out there, build your business your way, and live in the NOW! No opportunity wasted!
