Blame It On My Momma: The Kitchen Table MBA

by | Sep 3, 2024

The Kitchen Table MBA

Hello, Trailblazers! Have you ever heard the saying, “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree?” Well, when it comes to my entrepreneurial spirit and business savvy, you can definitely blame it on my Momma!

As a child, I often found my mother’s insistence on excellence to be a source of frustration. Even the simple act of making my bed had to be done perfectly. However, as I reflect on these moments, I realize that my mother laid a rock-solid foundation for my future success in business.

You see, our kitchen and dining room tables weren’t just for meals; for my brothers and I, they were a classroom for life. My Momma, with her infinite wisdom and no-nonsense approach, instilled in us kids valuable lessons that have shaped who we are and how we approach life and business.

So, grab a seat at my virtual kitchen table as I share the top five life lessons that turned into my business blueprint:

1. Show Up to Make an Impact:

  • Momma’s Lesson: “Don’t just sit there talking about it. Go out and do it!”
  • Business Application: You can have the greatest idea in the world, but if you don’t put yourself out there, no one will know. My Momma was a master at connecting with others. When I started my business, I employed her practices by actively participating in networking events and online communities, which helped me build my brand and create opportunities for myself.
  • Action Step: Identify one networking event or online community to join this week.

2. Honesty is the Best Policy:

  • Momma’s Lesson: “If you lie, you will steal. And both are wrong.”
  • Business Application: Trust is the foundation of any successful business. Be transparent, keep your promises, and always act with integrity. Momma was resolute: Your reputation is your most valuable asset.
  • Action Step: Review your business practices and identify areas where you can improve transparency and communication.

3. Respectful Disagreement:

  • Momma’s Lesson: “Everyone’s entitled to their opinion, but that doesn’t mean you have to be rude about it.”
  • Business Application: Embrace diverse perspectives and be open to feedback, even if you disagree. Handle disagreements with professionalism and grace. I highly value Momma’s advice to agree to disagree without being disagreeable.
  • Action Step: Practice active listening and seek to understand differing viewpoints before responding.

4. Actions Speak Louder Than Words:

  • Momma’s Lesson: “Don’t just tell me you’re going to do something. Show me.”
  • Business Application: Your actions define your brand. Be consistent and reliable, and always strive to exceed expectations. Momma’s words, “No one is looking for a slacker,” remind me to pursue excellence and consistency.
  • Action Step: Identify one area where you can improve your follow-through and commit to taking action.

5. Authenticity is Key:

  • Momma’s Lesson: “Be yourself. You are a designer original.”
  • Business Application: Don’t try to fit into a mold or copy someone else’s success. Embrace your unique personality and let it shine through in your brand. Momma’s “There will never be another you, baby; show them your power. It is God-given” still makes me smile.
  • Action Step: Brainstorm ways to infuse more of your personality into your marketing and branding efforts.

Bonus Tip:

  • Momma’s Lesson: “Two heads are better than one.”
  • Business Application: Don’t be afraid to ask for help or seek out mentors. Surround yourself with people who believe in you and can offer guidance and support. Momma taught me I did not have to be the most intelligent person in the room. Also, in this Lesson, I learned the power of collaboration, teamwork, and service.
  • Action Step: Join a community dedicated to your success.

These lessons, straight from my Momma’s kitchen table to your entrepreneurial journey, have been my guiding light. I’m confident they can do the same for you. If you’re hungry for more of my Momma’s wisdom, join the Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching and let her spirit of excellence elevate your business practices.

Remember, success isn’t just about what you know; it’s about how you show up, treat others, and stay true to yourself. These lessons, straight from my Momma’s kitchen table to your entrepreneurial journey, have been my guiding light. I’m confident they can do the same for you. Let’s make your entrepreneurial journey a success together!

Now go out there, apply these lessons, and make your Momma proud!

One Last Thought

If you’re fortunate enough to still have your mother with you, take a moment to hug her for me (I miss mine). And when you get a chance, I’d love to hear what lessons you’ve learned from your mother that have contributed to your success. Share your stories in the comments below.

Keep Making Your Momma Proud!

Brenda The Soulutionist

About Brenda

My mission is to help entrepreneurs discover how they can live their best lives now! No Opportunity Wasted,
while they close the gap between their desires and reality.

1 Comment

  1. Maxine Williams

    This is so awesome, I know your mother would be proud of you, I certainly am. I am currently in school full-time, pursuing a short term goal/dream, I plan on implementing everything you listed in my long term goal, which is to take ANF Global!

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