Hey there, Trailblazers! As we fire up the grills and soak up the last rays of summer sun, let’s not forget the true spirit of Labor Day. It’s a time to honor the hard work and dedication of those who built our nation AND a golden opportunity for us entrepreneurs to recharge, reflect, and strategize for even greater success!
Before we dive into the action steps, let’s take a quick trip back in time. Labor Day wasn’t always about backyard parties and mattress sales. It was born from the sweat and sacrifice of workers fighting for fair treatment and a better life.
As entrepreneurs, we’re part of that legacy. We’re the risk-takers, the innovators, the ones who hustle daily to build something meaningful. Labor Day reminds us to honor that spirit in ourselves and those we work with.
Action Steps to Make the Most of Labor Day:
Here are some actionable steps you can take to make the most of this Labor Day. These steps are designed to help you recharge, reflect, and strategize for even greater success.
Disconnect to Reconnect: Put down the phone, step away from the laptop, and permit yourself to unplug. Spend time with loved ones, immerse yourself in nature, or do something joyous. Remember, a refreshed mind is a creative mind!
Reflect and Realign: Use this break to take stock of your entrepreneurial journey. What’s working? What’s not? Are you still aligned with your core values and long-term goals? Labor Day is the perfect time to course-correct and ensure you’re on the right track.
Plan Your Next Big Move: While relaxation is key, don’t let Labor Day slip by without some strategic thinking. Brainstorm new ideas, revisit your business plan, or map out your marketing strategy for the fall. A little planning now can pay off big time later.
Show Appreciation: Take a moment to express gratitude to your team, clients, and partners. A simple thank-you note, a small gift, or even a heartfelt email can go a long way in building strong relationships and fostering loyalty.
Give Back: In the spirit of Labor Day, consider volunteering your time or donating to a cause you believe in. Giving back benefits others fills your cup, and reminds you of the bigger picture.
Remember:
Rest is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Don’t feel guilty about taking time off. Remember, during these moments of rest, your mind rejuvenates, and you come back stronger and more focused than ever.
Embrace the spirit of Labor Day. It’s a celebration of hard work, a recognition of your dedication, and a reminder to find balance and enjoy the fruits of your labor. You’re not alone. Reach out to fellow entrepreneurs for support and inspiration. We’re all in this together!
So, fire up that grill, raise a glass to the hardworking folks who came before us, and let’s make this Labor Day a springboard for even greater success!
Happy Labor Day, Trailblazers! Now, go out there and make some magic happen!
Hey there, my resilient warriors! On National Forgiveness Day, September 1st, let’s explore a topic many may struggle with FORGIVENESS.
I know, I know. When you’re battling the demons of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), the word “forgiveness” can feel like a heavyweight. It might bring up anger, resentment, or even a sense of betrayal. But trust me, forgiveness is not about condoning the actions that hurt you. It’s about freeing yourself from the chains of the past, reclaiming your power, and standing firm in your healing journey.
Why Forgiveness Matters for PTSD Healing:
Living with PTSD is like carrying a backpack full of rocks. Each unresolved hurt, each lingering resentment, is like a stone added to that burden. Forgiveness is about taking those rocks out, one by one, until you can stand tall and breathe freely again.
When you forgive, you’re not saying what happened was okay. You’re simply choosing to release the negative emotions that keep you stuck. This can lead to:
Reduced anger and bitterness
Improved mental and emotional well-being
Better sleep
Stronger relationships
Increased self-esteem
Action Steps for Practicing Forgiveness with PTSD:
Acknowledge Your Feelings: Don’t try to bury your emotions. It’s okay to be angry, hurt, or sad. Acknowledging these feelings is the first step toward healing.
Identify What Needs Forgiveness: This might involve forgiving someone who hurt you or even forgiving yourself for something you did or didn’t do.
Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Healing takes time, and there will be setbacks. Don’t beat yourself up if you’re struggling.
Seek Professional Help: If you’re having trouble forgiving, a therapist can offer support and guidance.
Focus on the Present: Don’t let the past control your future. Choose to live in the moment and create a life filled with joy and purpose.
Remember:
Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time event.
You don’t have to forget what happened to forgive.
Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, not the other person.
You are strong and capable of healing.
On this National Forgiveness Day, I encourage you to take a step toward letting go of the past. It won’t be easy, but it’s worth it. Embrace the power of forgiveness as you take time to re-write the story you tell yourself to regain your peace. If you or someone you love has thoughts of harming themselves or others, please call the National Crisis Lifeline at 988 (Veterans Press 1). They are available twenty-four hours a day.
You are a warrior; you deserve to be free and to live your life now—No Opportunity is Wasted. Remember, you are not alone. There are people who care about you and want to support you on your journey. Be Blessed.
Hey there, Trailblazers! Let’s talk about something I wish I had understood when I started this season of my entrepreneurial journey: the power of your story. As entrepreneurs, we’re not just building businesses; we’re living, breathing, rule-bending stories in the making. And trust me, sharing those stories isn’t just good for the soul; it’s essential for success.
Soul-Searching for Success
Now, I know what you might be thinking: “Brenda, my story’s messy, full of twists and turns, and doesn’t fit the ‘perfect entrepreneur’ mold.” And you know what? That’s exactly why it matters!
The journey to entrepreneurship isn’t a straight line. It’s full of doubts, failures, and ‘aha!’ moments. Sharing those raw, real experiences connects you with your audience on a deep, personal level. It shows them the person behind the brand, the heart behind the hustle.
Why Rule-Breakers Need to Speak Up
For those of you who color outside the lines, sharing your story is even more critical. Society often tells us to fit in, follow the rules, and play it safe. But you, my friend, were born to stand out!
Your story is a beacon for others who feel trapped in the conventional. It’s not just about you; it’s about the impact you can have on others. It shows them it’s okay to question the norm, break the mold, and create their own path. It’s a testament to the power of resilience, creativity, and unwavering belief in oneself.
Sharing Your Story: Where to Start
I know putting your story out there can be scary. But remember, vulnerability is strength. Here are a few tips to get you started:
Start Small: Share snippets on social media, in blog posts, or during networking events.
Be Authentic: Don’t try to sugarcoat your journey. Embrace the messiness.
Focus on Your ‘Why’: What drives you? What impact do you want to make?
Show Your Evolution: Highlight how your experiences shaped your expertise.
Use Your Voice: Write in a way that feels natural and reflects your personality.
Trailblazers Who’ve Shared Their Soul
I’ve seen firsthand how powerful storytelling can be. Take Madam C.J. Walker. Her story of overcoming poverty and discrimination to become the first self-made female millionaire inspires countless women and entrepreneurs of color. Or look at Daymond John of FUBU. His story of starting a clothing line from his living room inspires countless aspiring entrepreneurs. There’s also Sara Blakely(I speak of her often because she is a personal inspiration), the founder of Spanx, who shared her story of how she started her business with just $ 5,000 and a dream. These are just a few examples of how sharing your story can inspire others and make a real impact.
Your Story, Your Expertise
Remember, sharing your story isn’t just about connecting with your audience. It’s about establishing yourself as an expert. Your experiences, lessons learned, and unique perspectives are your credibility. Own it!
So, what are you waiting for? The world needs your story. It’s time to share your soul and inspire others to break free and chase their dreams. Need help sharing your story? Join the Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching to get started writing your story today. Now speak up, share, show, and tell them what you’re made of! I am Brenda, the Soulutionist, and I believe in you. Be Blessed.
Hey there, Trailblazers! If you’re ready to ditch the ‘fitting in’ mindset and become the designer original you were born to be, get prepared because we are about to dive deep into the art of walking away.
The ‘Walk Away’ Mentality: Your Key to Unlocking True Success
As entrepreneurs, we’re not just rule-breakers; we’re rule-re-writers. But that means we can’t be afraid to walk away from anything holding us back. Whether it’s a toxic client, a life-draining personal relationship, a limiting belief, or even a seemingly ‘safe’ opportunity, it’s gotta go if it doesn’t serve your highest good!
The Soulutionist’s Steps to Walking Away with Confidence:
Recognize the ‘Misfit’: Pay attention to those gut feelings. If something feels ‘off,’ it probably is. Don’t ignore those signals.
Assess the Impact: Ask yourself, ‘Is this helping me become my best self or build a profitable business?’ If the answer is no, it’s time to make a change.
Make the Decision: This is where the rubber meets the road. It’s time to say ‘no’ or ‘goodbye’ to whatever’s not serving you.
Embrace the ‘Walk Away’ Power: Every time you walk away from something that’s not right, you create space for something extraordinary to enter your life.
Celebrate Your Uniqueness: You are a designer original. Own it! Don’t be afraid to stand out from the crowd.
Remember:
Walking away is not quitting. It’s choosing yourself and your vision.
You are not alone. Many successful entrepreneurs have walked away from seemingly ‘good’ opportunities to pursue their dreams.
The world needs your unique gifts. Don’t dim your light to fit in.
Brenda’s Bottom Line:
Walking away is not easy, but it’s essential for growth. As entrepreneurs, we must be willing to let go of the good to make room for the great. So, be bold, be brave, and walk away from anything that’s not helping you become the best version of yourself.
I am Brenda, the Soulutionist, and I believe in you. The world is waiting for your brilliance! If you need help with Shining Bright, join the Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching to get your needed support. Be Blessed.
Hey there, Trailblazers! Brenda, the Solutionist here, is ready to spark that fire within you, the one that whispers, “Rules? Pfft, who needs them?” Let’s shatter those confining expectations, embrace the thrill of the unknown, and unleash the unstoppable entrepreneur within.
Rules? Made to be… Well, You Know…
Look, I get it. Rules, structure, the tried-and-true path, they’re comforting, familiar, and often stifling. But what if we shift our perspective? What if we see the unknown not as a void but as a thrilling adventure waiting to be explored? Entrepreneurship isn’t about fitting into a mold but breaking it and creating something uniquely yours. Remember, every groundbreaking idea started with someone who dared to say, “Nah, I’m gonna do it my way.” Let’s embrace this thrilling adventure of the unknown and unleash the entrepreneur within.
Take it from me. When I set out to share my message of empowerment and living in the NOW, the traditional publishing route wasn’t vibing with my energy. I broke the rules, embraced the digital age, and connected directly with my audience. Was it scary? You bet! Was it worth it? Absolutely. My message resonated, my books soared, and I forged an unbreakable bond with my readers.
Persistence vs. Pivoting: Trust Your Gut
Now, let’s talk about persistence. It’s a virtue, no doubt, but it’s not about banging your head against a brick wall. Sometimes, the most persistent thing you can do is listen to your gut and change direction. Don’t confuse stubbornness with strength. If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to pivot ( I have dozens of times), adapt, and find a new path that aligns with your vision. Remember, it’s okay to pivot. It’s a clear sign of strength and adaptability.
Rule-Breaking Tips: Fundamentals First
All right, let’s get practical. Breaking the rules doesn’t mean throwing out the baby with the bathwater. It’s about mastering business fundamentals first, then bending them to your will. Here are a few tips to get you started:
Know Your Why: What’s your driving force? Your passion? Your purpose? This will be the glue that keeps you sticking to your purpose when the going gets tough.
Embrace the Unexpected: Be open to new ideas, opportunities, and collaborations. Sometimes, the best things happen when you least expect them. Stay open and curious and ready to pounce on those unexpected opportunities.
Build a Tribe: Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who support your vision and challenge you to grow.
Fail Forward: Mistakes are inevitable. Learn from them, dust yourself off, and keep moving forward.
Live in the NOW: Don’t get caught up in regrets or worries about the future. Focus on the present moment and make the most of every opportunity.
Trust Your Gut, Own Your Success
Above all, trust your gut. It’s your most powerful tool. If something feels off, don’t ignore it. If an opportunity excites you, go for it. You are the architect of your success. Break the rules, forge your own path, and create a business that reflects your unique brilliance. Need help breaking the rules to grow your business? Join The Soulutionist Portal Group Coaching and close the gaps between your desires and reality. Trust your gut, own your success, and never forget you control your journey.
Listen up, my fellow rule-breakers. The world is waiting for your magic. Now go out there, build your business your way, and live in the NOW! No opportunity wasted!
